Erika Kirk, Vance’s Chat During Viral Hug Decoded: Here’s What Lip Reader Has To Say

Last Updated:November 07, 2025, 08:04 IST

A video of Erika Kirk and JD Vance hugging on stage during a Turning Point USA event at the University of Mississippi caught the internet's attention.

Erika Kirk and US Vice President JD Vance embrace at the Pavilion at Ole Miss on the campus of the University of Mississippi on October 29, 2025 in Oxford, Mississippi. (IMAGE: AFP)

A lip reader has revealed the touching exchange between Erika Kirk, widow of late Turning Point USA founder Charlie Kirk, and US Vice President JD Vance during her first public appearance since her husband’s assassination-a moment that caught all the internet’s attention.

It took place at a Turning Point USA event at the University of Mississippi last Wednesday, where Erika introduced Vance before a cheering crowd of over 10,000 people. She called him a “very, very dear friend," a remark that drew loud applause.

However, it was their quiet conversation on stage that captured public attention after professional lip reader Nicola Hickling disclosed what they said.

“I’m Proud of You" — “It’s Not Gonna Bring Him Back"

According to Hickling, as Vance and Erika briefly hugged, the vice president whispered, “I’m proud of you." Fighting back tears, Erika replied softly, “It’s not gonna bring him back."

The emotional exchange, caught on camera, quickly spread online, with many viewers describing it as heartbreaking. It came just weeks after Charlie Kirk’s assassination — a shocking on-stage shooting at Utah Valley University on September 10, which killed the 31-year-old conservative activist and close Trump ally.

Erika’s Difficult Return To Public Life

Erika, 36, who has since taken over as CEO of Turning Point USA, almost skipped the Mississippi event altogether. Hickling said Erika appeared visibly nervous before stepping onto the stage, reportedly telling her assistant, “I can’t do this. I don’t want to do it."

As the lights dimmed, the audience heard Charlie Kirk’s recorded voice introducing his wife — a moment that left her visibly emotional. Wiping her tears, Erika told the crowd: “You guys have no idea how helpful it is to have all of you in my life. You make me feel even more connected to my husband."

A Moment Of Respect And Shared Loss

While social media users speculated about their closeness after photos of them hugging went viral, Erika later described the hug as one of “mutual respect and shared mission."

Vice President Vance, in his speech that followed, honoured Charlie Kirk as “the most effective person in politics that I have seen."

The brief, heartfelt exchange — brought to light by a lip reader — has since been seen as a symbol of grief, strength, and solidarity between two people united by loss and purpose.

Anushka Vats

Anushka Vats is a Sub-Editor at News18.com with a passion for storytelling and a curiosity that extends beyond the newsroom. She covers both national and international news. For more stories, you can follow her...Read More

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