Gen Z in India blends books and modern dating

Gen Z in India is blending literature with dating. Tinder data shows that many young people are now inspired by the idea of the ‘Book Boyfriend’ — a fictional hero from novels who represents the qualities they look for in real relationships.

Mentions of 'bookstore' in Tinder bios have doubled between 2024 and 2025, while references to “Book Boyfriend” rose 58 percent in 2024 and jumped 77 percent in January 2025 alone.For many users, bios are written like story openers. Examples include, 'Books > Boys (but I’m willing to negotiate)' and 'The best way to my heart is a date at the bookstore.' Such references show that reading is becoming part of how daters express identity and expectations.According to Dr Chandni Tugnait, Relationship Expert at Tinder India, Gen Z is drawn to fictional boyfriends because they reflect emotional intelligence, vulnerability, and commitment. These are qualities young people want to see in real life. Rather than chasing perfection, they are seeking presence and emotional depth.Book references in Tinder bios also work as signals. Phrases like “Books and music, hit me up if you’re into reading and brainstorming” act as filters for like-minded matches, much like sharing playlists or memes.

They help cut through small talk and create an instant sense of shared understanding.Tinder’s Modern Dating Report shows that 53 percent of Gen Z in India want equal partnerships, while 50 percent say mutual support matters most. At the same time, 37 percent admit struggling with emotional intimacy. Dr Tugnait notes that fictional characters help set standards for modern love, teaching that romance is about being present, supportive, and consistent. For Gen Z, these 'Book Boyfriends' are not just fantasies but blueprints for the kind of relationships they want to build in real life.