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Actress Deepshikha Nagpal, known for her roles in films like 'Baadshah' and 'Sirf Tum', recently opened up about her two failed marriages and how she still feels confident about entering another relationship if things fall into place.
The actress admitted that there is nothing to blame on her ex-partners, but she attributes the failures to the wrong timing in her life.Deepshikha about her divorce
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In an interview with Instant Bollywood, Deepshikha was asked whether she would consider getting married once again. She completely embraced the idea and admitted that there is nothing wrong with marrying more than once, as she has already gone through two divorces.
“I can get married three times, four times — I have no shame in this. At least I am living my life. When I see two people who don’t get along...” she added. She also acknowledged that perhaps she wasn’t the right person for her ex-partners, and vice versa.“I always got married for the wrong reasons. You should always get married for the right reasons, so I can’t blame the guy for everything. I think I’m a die-hard romantic. I believe in love, I believe in romance, I believe in marriage.
Two people can be together. So, if it's not working, it's better to live your life than to ruin it. You should live your life,” she said.Parents' fighting each otherThe 'Baadshah' actress shared how her parents used to fight and then reconcile the next morning, as they had a love-hate relationship. They never got divorced because of the love they still carried for each other, even during their arguments. Her parents used to write letters to each other saying they were divorcing, and one day Deepshikha asked them to marry someone else and move on.“I believe everyone has the right to live their life. You don't have to be punished for one mistake for the rest of your life. Don’t suffer. I know people talk badly about you. Nothing is easy. Being in the wrong relationship or a bad relationship is also a challenge for you,” she stated.Moving on from failed marriagedShe shared that even after moving on from her first marriage and remarrying, things still didn’t work out.
The actress revealed that her psychiatrist told her that her relationship pattern is different — she doesn't enter relationships easily, and it takes her a long time to get in and out of them. “It takes me five to six years. I went on a guilt trip, but then I realised that I had to break the pattern. So I took help from the Buddhist art of living modality.
”She began to understand why these things were happening to her, after exploring new approaches.
She did a course on Access Consciousness and discovered that many of her choices were influenced by a low life condition.“I’ve raised my standards and energy so I don’t make the same wrong choices again. I’ve worked on myself. So now, even if I’ve been single for seven years, I don’t feel like, ‘Oh my God, there’s nobody.’ It’s okay. The right person will come. Now, I know what I want,” she revealed.She was married to Jeet Upendra, and they separated in 2007. She then married Kaishav Arora in 2012 and got divorced in 2016.