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When it comes to Bollywood celebrities, public curiosity goes far beyond their films and fashion choices. Fans are often quite invested in their favourite stars' personal lives-- from who's dating whom to who broke up with whom.
Meanwhile, in today’s fast-paced and digital world, modern relationships have evolved, bringing new challenges, expectations, and emotional complexities. From online dating to constant public scrutiny, maintaining healthy relationships, especially for Bollywood celebs, is no longer simple.Talking on these lines, actors Kartik Aaryan and Ananya Panday recently opened about their views on love and relationships. From the qualities they look for in a partner to the glaring red flags in a relationship, here's what the actors shared with Nikhil Taneja for Yuvaa while promoting their new film 'Tu Meri Main Tera Main Tera Tu Meri' together.Qualities that Kartik Aaryan looks for in a relationshipWhile rumours of Kartik Aaryan being linked to other actresses never fail to make the headlines, the actor is currently said to be single. And so, when asked about the qualities that make a happy and healthy relationship, Kartik replied, "I think friendship and mutual respect... And honesty is really important. When you see these green flags in a person, I think you should never let them go."
And rightly so! When it comes to relationships, respect is said to be one of the most important things that keeps them going even more than love. "Respect is absolutely essential for the relationship to work. Love without respect is dangerous; it can crush the other person, sometimes literally," Peter Gray Ph.D., research professor at Boston College and author, wrote in an article published on Psychology Today.Elaborating this, he further wrote in the article, "To respect is to understand that the other person is not you, not an extension of you, not a reflection of you, not your toy, not your pet, not your product.
In a relationship of respect, your task is to understand the other person as a unique individual and learn how to mesh your needs with his or hers and help that person achieve what he or she wants to achieve. Your task is not to control the other person or try to change him or her in a direction that you desire but he or she does not.
"What Ananya Panday looks for in a relationshipWhen asked about her views on what she looks for in a relationship, Ananya Panday replied, "Everyone wants the same thing, like loyalty and honesty.
Good sense of humour is very important." Pondering a bit more, she added, "I would also say someone who is very genuine, like I don't like people who change in front of other people. What you are, you should be like that with everyone."Ananya Panday and Kartik Aaryan reveal the biggest red flag in a relationshipAfter sharing the qualities they really appreciate in a partner, actors Ananya Panday and Kartik Aaryan both agreed upon lies to be the biggest red flag in relationships! "I don't think lying in any form is acceptable to me," Ananya said.
After all, why would anyone want to be with a person who lies to them.Adding to it, Ananya shared that a person who disrespects you and isn't supportive of your work and dreams is also a big red flag for her.She then went on to share her perspective on modern relationships, and said that it should be based on equality-- for both men and women. "I feel that's a lot of pressure on men also, to only be taking on that role, and a relationship has to be equal. You have to be happy for each other when they are succeeding or doing well," she said.Do you agree with Kartik Aaryan and Ananya Panday's ideas of an ideal relationship? Tell us in the comment section below.
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